Jacilyn M - Wedding | Engagement Photography

About Jacilyn M

I believe that life is an adventure. An adventure I only get once, so I live it to the fullest. I live out my dreams. I enjoy travel. Consume WAY too much coffee. Laugh really loud. Really like winter. And, I photograph it as I go. And this, this is where I share the story of it all.

Archive: ‘Weddings’



Christine + Justin | A Daly Mansion Mountain Wedding Story

Monday, June 10th, 2013

As they danced she placed her hand on his chest, over his heart. It’s their thing. Although to all of us it may appear as simple gesture it has such meaning for them. As she holds it there, without words, she tells him she loves him. Cares for him. Will always take care of him. Supports him. Encourages him. That she holds his heart and in turn he holds hers.

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The sun shined and the wind blew. And there ceremony was filled with loving words from their family and friends. And a smile on everyones face.

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And as much as he may have tried to hide it. Her older brother was proud of her. And as the day went on he let it show more and more even said it out loud eventually. His love for her even made Joe cry. Not even lying people.

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They declared their love for one another. In gestures and in words. And their families did the same. For Justin. For Christine. And for each other.  I cry at every wedding. Shhhh. Don’t tell people. I’m not a crier. I cry every wedding during the father-daughter dance. Every time. And I hide behind my camera. But this wedding. The words spoken amongst all of them had me crying enough that I couldn’t hold the camera up that long without losing blood to my arms. Sometimes I’d take a long blink just to open them up and see if this was real. Every second of it was. I’ve never seen such a fairytale come true.  I photograph love stories almost every weekend of the summer. And although I think it’s easy to photograph moments of love between two people. I can only hope these images show the amount of love present.

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Christine & Justin. You came along as I began a major overhaul on my business. Bringing about new ideas and beliefs for myself. You came at the exact right moment. You’ve proven to me that things are possible. Fulfilled dreams and beliefs. For you I am incredibly thankful. So stoked that you’ve become such great friends along the way! There is nothing like shooting the wedding of a friend. And, lucky me that I get to do it weekend after weekend :)

Signed

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Ariana & Jonathan | A Mountain Wedding Story

Tuesday, May 28th, 2013

Although the weather called for rain, there wasn’t a cloud in sight. She sat laughing and telling the story of this perfect man she had been looking for. Realizing now that she was blind.  He had been there. Waiting. And waiting. Ever so patiently. It took her a while, but she finally saw him. Really truly saw him. He was the one she had been looking for all along. Right there in front of her. Waiting. And then laughing continued.

He stood there taking in the site of these majestic mountains. Waiting for her, once again. And as much as they tried to shake the nervousness it was there. The excited nervousness. Her gown flowing behind her he turned to see her. His wife.

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They are two puzzle pieces that fit together just perfectly. Content in the arms of one another.

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There is something so intimate and comfortable about a smaller wedding. The ones you love. The ones who mean the absolute most to you. The ones that really matter. Ariana & Jonathan knew from the beginning they wanted a smaller more intimate event surrounded by family. The ones who will love and support them through everything in life, no matter what.

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They start this new life together. This new adventure. I can’t wait to see where it takes them!

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Signed

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The Second Shooter

Tuesday, March 12th, 2013

The second shooter has become this benefit that everyone enjoys when they book their wedding with me. Almost every inquiry asks do we really get a second shooter? Are they shooting or assisting? You really include a second shooter? We get two photographers?!!!!  And enthusiastically I reply with yes there will be 2 of us taking photos.

Because I’ve always done this I’ve always felt like this was a standard. However after a conversation with an engaged friend the other night I learned that it isn’t standard. Not everyone has one, or offers one. And those that offer were sometimes charging up to 40% more as an additional expense to bring the second photographer. I was a little baffled. I can’t imagine a wedding without a second shooter. And if you didn’t know, brides don’t like random additional expenses ;)

The second shooter is very valuable. For the couple. And, for me. So if you’re a photographer considering the idea of adding one, or a bride looking for a photographer, here are some reasons you might want a second shooter to be there.

- Backup. Unfortunately things happen. Technology can fail. Last summer I photographed a wedding where a card failed. It malfunctioned. It died. But on that card were my photos from the ceremony and a boat ride following the ceremony. Fortunately I was able to recover about 80% of the photos I had taken from recovery software and such. But I was still missing the beginning of the ceremony. Thankfully I had a second shooter covering as well and we had some photos. Without him I would have had to deliver a wedding missing the beginning of the actual main event!

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- 2 places at one time. For example, getting ready. There are times that the bride is getting into her dress at the same time the groom is getting into his tux. And lets be real. We can tell men wait for me to come before you get dressed. When he either didn’t hear that or heard get dressed before I come ;) Then I miss him getting ready and have to re-enact it, taking more time. Or often the bride and her gorgeous ladies are getting ready in an entirely different location than the groom and his men. Do you choose to just photograph the bride or try to cover both losing moments happening in each place? My second shooter spends getting ready time with the boys and I’m with the girls. So we don’t have to worry about being in 2 places at once, cause we already are ;)

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-Simultaneous moments.  There is ALOT happening at once during weddings. For example 30-60 seconds of the bride walking down the aisle. In this one minute of time there is his reaction to seeing her, her seeing him, her dad walking her down the aisle, mom beaming with tears in her eyes at her seat, the maid of honor with the biggest smile on her face, Grandpa in the front row with a tissue to his eye cause he “doesn’t cry” ;) , the best man giving the groom a pat on the back of encouragement. How can I try to capture all of this in 30 seconds by myself? Especially without making a scene! And lets be honest the bride and groom are fixed on each other. They don’t see everyones reaction, or remember that pat on the back. Without the images telling that part of the story they wouldn’t even know :D Instead, my second shooter and I split the duties. Usually one covering the groom and the bridal party, the other covering the bride and family. The bride and the groom are top priority here. So if I’m on bride duty as soon as I know I nailed a couple great photos I’ll turn to grab 2 images of the groom. That goes back to the first point, backup. In the unfortunate case that my second shooter has something happen to the camera, or card I grabbed a couple quick images of the groom.

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-Different points of view. I love how much we can cover during portraits with 2 of us getting 2 points of view. With 2 points of view comes awareness and understanding of what the other is doing. If I’m shooting wide my second is going to shoot tighter and vice versa. Then we’re shooting at 2 different angles. One might be straight on and the other to the side. Each giving a different look. Giving my clients double the opportunity for killer images during the bride & groom part of the day. Which can be extremely beneficial for those weddings where only 20 minutes are given for portraits, or things run late and you have less time, etc.

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-It’s more fun. Who doesn’t want more fun?!  Although my brides always become my friends and we have a great time together. By the end of the night I feel like I’ve known that group of girls my whole life. But it’s still more fun to have someone along side you for the adventure. Coffee in the morning, a little jam time before it’s go time, someone to eat with, to laugh with, to dance with, someone there to support you and encourage you when you doubt yourself, someone to carry your things (ya I said it), and even though you ate at the reception you’re burnt out and hungry now you have someone to grab take out with.

So whether you’re a bride or a photographer, the second shooter is of benefit to both of you. And even when I’m photographing a 2 hour elopement where the ceremony is only the two of them I bring an assistant. To carry things, to help me coordinate or pull her dress out just right during photos, to point out things happening that I might not see, chances are they’ll take a few photographs giving that other point of view, and I’ll definitely have a little more fun. And my brides, they get security in knowing I’m doing all I can to cover every moment, doubling up at important times to make sure it’s never forgotten even in old age, they’ll receive more because of the extra view, their groom isn’t being left out or put lower than her on the photo priority list, and having both of us just brings a little ease and comfort on their big day.

Signed

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Matt + Kymra | Missoula Montana St Francis Hilton Winter Wedding Photography

Wednesday, January 16th, 2013

First wedding of 2013. Startin’ early!  Usually there are some jitters with the first wedding of the year. Normally I’ve had a good few months since shooting my last wedding and it takes a few shots and running around to get back in the game. But this time, all was good. Now it could have been cause my last wedding was only 2.5 months ago, but really it was because this couple is awesome, and gorgeous, and fun! However my legs on Sunday reminded me it had been a few months since I photographed a wedding ;)

I was so excited when Matt and Kymra booked me. Kymra is so sweet. And, Matt and I go wayyy back. I won’t say how many years, don’t want you guys knowing that we’re that old, ok. We went to elementary and middle school together. Matt tells people I stabbed him with a pencil. The way I remember it was that he slammed his hand down onto my pencil. Whatever story you believe there’s proof to this day on his hand it happened. Then I moved right before high school, but Joe went to the same high school so he knew Matt and some of the groomsmen too. And then to top it off after college Joe and Matt started working for the same company. This wedding was stunningly gorgeous and SO much fun. A big reunion of childhood friends, Joe’s co-workers, other 2013 couples (ya their friends have booked us too), and even guests who were at (or even part of) Nick & Ronnie’s wedding this September! Sidenote: Ronnie went to school with Kymra growing up and Nick went to school with Matt, Joe and I growing up. Crazy small world!

It was THE BEST WAY EVER to start a new year of weddings. Not exaggerating!

Matt and Kymra are off starting their marriage the best way possible. In Jamaica!! Hope you two are having the best time of your lives. CONGRATULATIONS again! Thank you so much for including us in such a special day. We love you!

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Justin + Christine | Missoula MT Rustic Forest Engagement Photography

Monday, November 26th, 2012

At the end of the summer I made a quick stop at a going away party to pick up Joe. The party was for one of my childhood friends who happened to work with Joe. His fiance and I had been emailing back and forth about photographing their wedding but I had never met her in person. Only there for a few brief minutes I went over to say hi to her.  Which turned into HI!!! Oh so good to meet you, please meet my friend Christine! She just got engaged!!!!  A quick chat and I was on my way out to a shoot.

A week or two goes by. Had a crazy week shooting 3 weddings, one of them in Tahoe. I posted up Ronnie & Nick’s gorgeous wedding on the blog and within minutes I get a message from Christine. Saying when can you meet?! We must chat.  The rest is history. I left to have coffee with her, told Joe I wouldn’t be long. I returned home 4 hours later. I adore her. Justin has been living out of town working and I was so excited to FINALLY meet him this weekend. A brisk, chilly day with the sun peaking out every so often in a little wooded area. These two are so easy to photograph. Give them a simple idea and they love on each other, kiss, hug, “nuzzle”, without me having to say a thing. I LOVE IT!

Christine and Justin I hope you love these! I cannot wait for more coffee dates, lunch, dinner, afternoon drives and your wedding in June at the Daly Mansion!!!!!

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Lyle + Arcadea | Missoula Fall Wedding

Monday, October 22nd, 2012

She was his teacher. Which means he was the student. Don’t worry they didn’t date until after final grades were submitted ;) They are meant to be. It’s undeniable. Arcadea is an actress and for her masters thesis project she had a show. Lyle planned out everything perfectly. As the performers were doing the curtain call pink and white petals fell from the ceiling. The lights went off and Lyle rushed on stage and the spotlight turned on him and he proposed to Arcadea as the petals continued falling all around them. Sounds like a dream right?  They are so very much in love and I have the pleasure of spending the weekend with them watching and photographing as the best day of their lives unfolded.

Arcadea and Lyle CONGRATULATIONS!!! Love you both!

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Shawn + Jessica | Las Vegas Wedding

Tuesday, October 16th, 2012

Shawn and Jessica are one of the funnest couples I’ve EVER worked with. Honestly they’re friends now and it hardly felt like working.  They are crazy about each other and down for just about anything. I had the awesome opportunity to fly in early and enjoy the whole weekend with them. Including the bachelorette party. Which was quite eventful and just a downright good time.

This wedding was a bit different than others as I photographed them getting ready, their first look, their portraits, bridal party, family and parts of their reception. However I was able to sit and just enjoy their ceremony. They got married in a little chapel that didn’t allow outside wedding photographers. It was actually quite fun to just sit back and enjoy the moment with all of my new friends.

Shawn and Jessica, THANK YOU THANK YOU!! I truly had THE best time. I was soooo sad that I had to leave. I wish you both the absolute best. I hope I hear about a baby soon ;)

 

The girls asked to remake the photo from the cover image of the movie Bridesmaids. They KILLED it. If you aren’t familiar with the movie image I’ll throw up a comparison for you at the end!

So if you haven’t seen the cover of the Bridesmaids movie here is it is for ya. See the girls totally nailed it!

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Taylor + Stefanie | Day After Session

Tuesday, October 9th, 2012

Stefanie and Taylor planned a day after session for the morning after the wedding.  I wish everyone did this. It’s so much fun.  I’m so grateful that they did.  We only took just a couple of photos of the two of them on their wedding day as it was pouring rain. If you look real close in the blog post you can see the rain on Taylors jacket! It was cold and really wet. But we had already planned this session so we weren’t stressing about making sure we had tons of photos in the cold rain.

Day after sessions are fun and laid back. No stress or time to keep track of. Just a fun adventure.  We took off further up into the mountains. Stopped a couple times to fish and enjoy the scenery. LOVED it!!

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Taylor + Stefanie | Arrowpeak Lodge Mountain Wedding

Monday, October 8th, 2012

Stefanie is a planner, detail oriented and on time. Taylor is relaxed, a laid back man. Stefanie researched and researched for their wedding day. Wanted it to happen after the leaves had changed but the weather still being nice. After looking through, I don’t know, 10 years of almanac history October 6th was after the leaves had changed and the average temp was in the mid 60′s. Well it is Montana….. There was snow on the ground, brisk cool air and eventually a downpour.  None of that stopped these two. Their day was full of love and celebration!

Stefanie and Taylor thank you sooo much for letting me be a part of your big weekend. We love you!!  Congratulations!!!

I am obsessed with Stefanie’s bouqet.  Made by her bridesmaids and included jewels and handkerchiefs from grandmothers, wrapped in burlap and her father’s scarf and finished with a buckle from her grandfathers military uniform.

Boys will be boys :)

Here’s a little preview of tomorrow’s blog post!!  Stefanie and Taylor planned a day after session. Honestly I’m SOOO glad we did. Moments after the ceremony it started to down pour. Being 40 degrees and pounding rain we decided to take just a few quick portraits of them and then run for warmth and cover and make up for it the next day. And it ROCKED. So ya better check back for it tomorrow ;)

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First Look. To do or not to do.

Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

The first look. Is it right for you? If you’re getting married you’re probably noticing more and more images, blog posts, magazines, etc showing the couple during a first look. Seeing each other before the wedding.

Most photographers will try to convince you to do it because it generally allows more time for photos.  That is true. But it certainly is not the only reason you should consider the first look for your wedding.  The biggest concern I hear from brides about the first look is that they feel like seeing each other before the ceremony takes the emotion away from seeing each other as she walks down the aisle. In talking with my brides brides who have done first looks that isn’t the case. In fact there is more emotion in the day. I set up the first look as a private time together.  Rather than your hundreds of guests staring at you during these moments of first seeing each other you have time to yourself. Time to actually soak it in.  My couples have said the first look relaxes them. The first look allows them to let out all of that built up emotion and they really get to SEE each other. The ceremony  and her walking down the aisle is no longer about what they look like and how good they look. They’ve already seen each other. Instead they are overwhelmed with the emotions of reality. That they are now truly marrying each other. Now their focus is on what is actually happening opposed to just what they look like.

Side benefits of the first look are indeed the amount of time available for photos. I follow the first look with portraits of the bride and groom. We aren’t rushed and you’re now relaxed that we can capture tons of great images. Followed by bridal party and usually family photos. So, following the ceremony you don’t have to leave your family and friends you can celebrate in the cocktail hour and reception rather than running off.

The first look isn’t for everyone. And that is totally okay. And, it doesn’t mean if you don’t do a first look you won’t have time for lots of images. That’s not true. We’ll just set up your timeline a little differently. But, for some the first look is absolutely the perfect choice. Here are few images from first looks that happened this summer.

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